Handling Sexual Feelings (Part 1)

 Why do you have these Sexual Feelings?

This is simple. It is as I have said before. You have attained a stage in growth called puberty. As your body develops, changes occur, including in your thoughts and feelings. This is as a result of sexual hormones your body is producing. It’s all part of growing up.

Beyond your thoughts and feelings, your daily life, your relationship with others and how you even see yourself will change. Life can become pretty confusing and embarrassing as you try to deal with these changes; but it’s not all bad news: it can also be an exciting and wonderful experience too.

These feelings can want to make you want to be so close to someone who attracts you. Your body will feel excited, or shivery, or warm, or tingly whenever you think about the person. Yep, it can be crazy. I believe you can relate.

But then, understand that all of these are happening because God wired you, programmed you, to be like that. You were designed from Day One with these feelings. However, this is not so that you can begin to explore these feelings as soon as you began to have them. They were put there for your exploration and enjoyment only when you get married. Anything outside this amounts to sin.

When I come your way again next week, I shall be shedding more light on this. Please keep checking in, and share your thoughts with us. God bless.